20 Jan '08 - 11:50 a.m.
Yesterday I predicted the wife and I wouldn't have sex last night and we didn't. Again something I really wanted and really needed did not happen.
Started of wonderfully as all bad things do. Picked her up at work, came home and she had a nap. Our daughter was even cordial enough which is a miracle in itself.
The wife suggested we go back to that Mexican bar with the smoking hot barmaid. Smoking hot was my contribution to her description, not my wifes.
So, off we went. More than a few drinks, touching of our thighs sneakily under the bar. I'm charged up.
It didn't hurt that the barmaid was still smoking. I caught my wife looking at her too. She even adjusted her seat once when the hottie was at the other end of the bar!!!!
I cannot bring it up to her as she is so not comfortable with this aspect of her sexuality. She always claimed that she does the girl/girl stuff to turn me on. It does turn me on. But she has had more girl/girl contact without me there than when I'm present. It still turns me on. But I would rather see it first hand. Hey, it's my fetish OK?
I know if I forced the issue that all these mini adventures of hers would stop pronto. I don't want them to stop.
We did have ordinary sex this morning before I dropped her off at work. Just ordinary straight sex. I came,she didn't.
She also seems to be a bit cheesed off at Tara. Tara is writing erotic literature now and read some to Ellie. One of the items was about being attracted to married men! of course I think Ellie thinks that is a direct reference to me. Hell Ellie is jealous of Raquel Welch, an old pinup girl from the sixties with whom I had a crush on. Duh! Did I use 'whom' in the correct context? I always find that one tough. Raquel was being interviewed a few years ago and the interviewer asked if she was worried about breast cancer. And do you know what she said? "Honey, silicon can't get cancer!" What a gal, see why I liked her. Her daughter Tawnee starred in 'Cocoon'.
No talking to Tara this weekend, I'll let El cool off a bit. Though I admit I enjoy talking sex with her maybe a bit too much. Hee, hee.
How common is it for a normally straight girl to be attracted to another girl? I will have to look that one up.
Oh, just one drink before we left the Mexican bar to go home another couple struck up a conversation with us. Nice, do you know how rare that is these days to meet people cold, AND another couple even joined in with laughter at one point! Even rarer. On the way in to work Ellie said she wished we could have stayed later, but she needed sleep. I agree with her on that. But it was nice.
I will probably jinx myself here but I hope we are starting a new trend and bigin going on these little dates. God, I love her salary after years of just surviving on mine.
I might have another entry later, right now I think I'm going to surf some adult sites and take matters in my own hand. Heh, heh.
Later.
