13 Dec '07 -
I put up with a lot from my wife and daughter. They put up with a lot from me. But I would like a bit of privacy once in a while. For example, in facebook, a small circle of us are buying our spouses, (Yes, the famous Toy is one of them, buyers that is), and my wife started harping on it. I recognize the signs of a huge jealousy fit comming upon her, its been years since she flipped out but I recognized the signs.
I had to act fast so I asked her outright why EVERYTHING I enjoy becomes an issue with her. I mean everything. So before we got into a huge row, I ended my account with facebook. She was shocked, upset and mad. Not jealous insane like where she was heading just fucking mad. I prefered that to the insane thing.
I gave my new cell phone to my daughter, as I caught my wife checking for whom I've called.(Did I use 'whom' in the right context?). I called our land line once to find out my cells number and my wifes cell once just to see if I could. Thats all my activity for two weeks. I told my wife I'd save her the trouble of snooping and get rid of it.
So, the upswing is I have no phone, facebook is gone. The funnything is that I don't know any of her passwords or groups she belongs too. I don't want to smother her. I feel smothered. Its simmering for a while, and I'm afraid of exploding, for regardles of how I'm whining and bitching thing are really great here, I swear.
Phangasm, an old read of mine said he misses the quiet and solitude of being single, not answering to anyone...siiiigh.
I love being married...the wife called me and apologized for her PMS these past few days... I didn't even know her period started, we have been going to bed mad. Surprise!
On the Toy front, she asked for directions to the bar where she and my wife go to, using that cool British term, to snog! The Toy is taking our young neighbour as my wife is working 'til 11pm. Though when the wife heard they were still going out without her, she relented and said I'll drop all of them off after she gets home:)
Thanks for the ear diaryland, I feel the pressure abating quite a bit. Hope to have an update on faux lesbianism tonight.....later:)
